我が子が自分から勉強するなんて!びっくり!ママからのメッセージ
ふと見ると、テレビの前でだらだらスマホ
気がついたらゲームばっかり
こっちは毎日クタクタなのに
家事を手伝う気持ちもまったくない!
皆さんのお宅ではどうでしょうか。
これは私の塾にやってきたお母さん達が、我が子について最初にお話してくださる時のアルアルです。
Y君も最初はそんな感じでした。
しかしHGMトレーニングを始めて変わってきました
お母さんからこんなメッセージをいただきました

ご丁寧にありがとうございます。
また、成長の様子を教えていただき、とても嬉しく思いました。家でも学校や塾の宿題に自ら取り組むようになりました。
数日前には夜ふと急に始め、
遅くなったので続きは明日にしたら?と声をかけても、自分で最後までやり遂げようとしていました。また、洗い物を進んですることもあり、少しずつ自立した姿がみられるようになってきて、その変化に驚いております。
先生が日々根気強く積み重ねてくださっているご指導のおかげだと感じております。
いつもありがとうございます。引き続き、どうぞよろしくお願いいたします。
お母さんは私たちに感謝してくださっています。
でもね、お母さんが変わった事が一番大きいのです。
お母さんが私たちの脳科学に基づいたアドバイスを真剣に聞き、子どもに対する姿勢を変えていったからなのです。
お母さんが変わったところ
- 自分に自信を持つ
- 夫婦で話し合って子育ての方針を決めた
- 自分の人生と子どもの人生を切り分けて考えるようになった
- 子どもを注意した後に落ち込まなくなった
- 自分自身の人生を楽しむようになった
Y君は、これから、もっともっと成長していくと思います。
それも全て、お母さんの努力によるのです。
子育てのヒントが得られる
みん天親塾―無料登録はこちら!
今月は夏休みの宿題をやらないお子さんについてです
You Look Over and See Them Slouching in Front of the TV, Scrolling on Their Phone. Before You Know It, They’re Playing Games Again. You’re Exhausted Every Single Day, Yet They Don’t Seem to Have Any Intention of Helping Around the House!
Does this sound familiar in your home?
This is actually one of the most common things mothers tell me when they first come to my school and talk about their children.
One of my students, whom I’ll call Y, was like that at first, too.
But after starting HGM training, he gradually began to change.
His mother recently sent us this message:
Thank you very much for your thoughtful message.
I was also very happy to hear about the progress he has been making.At home, he has started working on his school and tutoring homework on his own.
A few nights ago, he suddenly decided to start working on it late in the evening.
Even when I said, “It’s getting late. Why don’t you finish the rest tomorrow?” he was determined to complete it by himself.He has also started voluntarily doing the dishes from time to time. Little by little, I can see him becoming more independent, and I’m amazed by the changes in him.
I truly feel that this is thanks to the patient and consistent guidance you provide every day.
Thank you, as always.I look forward to your continued support.
His mother is very grateful to us.
But actually, the biggest change has been the change in his mother herself.
She listened carefully to our brain-science-based advice and began changing the way she approached and interacted with her child.
How His Mother Changed
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She became more confident in herself.
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She and her husband discussed and agreed on how they wanted to raise their child.
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She learned to separate her own life from her child’s life.
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She stopped feeling guilty and depressed after correcting or disciplining her child.
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She began enjoying her own life.
I believe Y will continue to grow and develop even more from here.
And all of this has been made possible by his mother’s efforts.
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